Sex Toys

well who has some, wants some, or is scared of them....lol. Well lets start with dildos and what if your man is afraid of the competition..First that's natural after all they come in all sizes and the can do amazing things. He may feel like you aren't happy with the real thing if you are wanting or using the biggest one in the store, or he may feel like he isn't man enough for you if you are using one. Lets face facts. Men don,t always get the job done, involve you partner and let him drive so to speak, or try mutual masturbation with toys. Once he realizes that the more you are satisfied, then the more often you are interested he may come around. Also be very open talk about sex with your partner discuss what you like and listen to what they like. Everyone has fantasies and the closer you can get to acting them out the more exciting and rewarding your sex life will be. Now when it comes to dildos the best ones seem to be the rabbits ..you know they vibrate, spin and have the little clit massager also, and don't forget a lot of heterosexual men fantasize about anal sex and this where a strap on comes into play, be careful though if your man has this fantasy don't run out and by a ten inch strap on because you will spend forever trying to just get in in there..ha..

now one of the other best toys are the small clit vibrators or bullets as they are most commonly referred to. the adjustable ones are the best and sometimes the smaller ones work better. Many women prefer the smaller ones because they can slip just inside the upper lip area and can be worked around the clit. But remember the key is adjustable speed because they can get numbing if they just go fast fast fast the entire time.

thats all for today any suggestions or comments just post,em up