Long Mondays

Well it been a long day at work, it was a Monday for sure. So after a day like today how can you relax enough to get in the mood for sex? does your partner feel like being intimate today?

1. Start by always walking in and giving your partner a soft kiss and tell them how much you missed them today and that your day was hard but now that your home everything is ok. ( ok not in these exact words but show your partner that they are important to you everyday).

2. If Supper isn't ready offer to help finish it or start making it. Also little things like taking the trash out or helping to pick up around the house.( this is especially important if you have small children in the house)

3. Take a Shower together ( how long has it been since you washed each others back) or offer to play with the children while your partner can relax in a bath. ( it is very important to set the mood. Remember as we get older sex is more enjoyable so it can't just be a hit and git situation)

4. Spend some snuggle time on the couch and watch TV together ( after the kids are asleep if applicable)

5. last but not least don't rush or pressure each other for sex. The constant remarks about how much you want it or how long it's been just ruins any attempt you make towards relaxing and having a wonderful night of passion.

OK that's all for today, tomorrow I will talk about men's health issues and some things we can do as men to keep ourselves healthy and also some extras for us.